Do you ever feel like you’ve lost the battle? Like, you’ve hit the bottom and can’t get back up anymore?
Do you feel like you’re trying so hard to accomplish goals but nothing works?
Do you feel betrayed by people or weight loss products that have failed you?
Do you ever tell yourself “nothing works so why bother try”?
If you have answered yes to any of these questions then the first thing you need to do is change your mindset and cognitive thinking.
Everybody knows the drill, whether you want to lose 2 pounds or 200. Just decrease your calories and get more exercise. And millions of people routinely set off with high hopes determined to do just that. Nevertheless, study after study indicates that while many succeed in losing some weight, the long-term results are overwhelmingly poor. Knowing what to do and knowing how to get yourself to do it are entirely separate skills. When it comes to changing behavior, especially long-term, habitual patterns, getting yourself to do something different, even when you know it’s good for you, depends largely on what you tell yourself: that is, on your thinking.
For example, let’s say you’re at a party and see five really delicious pastries. Will you end up eating too much? You probably will if you think, “I don’t care. I don’t want to deprive myself. It isn’t fair that everyone else gets to eat whatever they want, and I have to settle for one small piece”. By contrast, if you say to yourself, “I’m going to pick my favorite dessert. I’ll eat one small piece slowly and enjoy every bite. I know I’m going to feel so proud of myself,” you stand a much better chance of not overeating.
Like depressed clients, those with anxiety, substance abuse, or eating disorders, people who repeatedly find themselves unable to regulate their own weight typically can’t get past their negative, dysfunctional thinking. In order to achieve their goals, unsuccessful dieters don’t need to uncover hidden motivations or explore the hypothesized childhood origins of their problems. Instead, they need to learn how to address the dysfunctional thinking that leads to overeating.
The most basic tool that helps clients learn the cognitive skills they need to adhere to their diets is the use of index cards on which they write messages they’ll need to read when they’re tempted to overeat. They develop the practice of reading “response cards” containing these helpful messages every morning and at least one more time, at their most vulnerable part of the day. Here are a few examples of response-card messages:
– I can eat whatever I want, whenever I want, or I can be thinner. I can’t have it both ways.
– Hunger and craving always pass. I can make them go away faster by focusing my attention on something else.
– My body doesn’t know it’s a holiday. It’ll process food in exactly the same way as on other days.
Reading these cards daily, even when motivation is high, allows dieters to immerse themselves in crucially important ideas that prepare them for the inevitable difficult times, especially the thoughts that lead to negative, motivation-sapping emotions: “This is just too hard” leads to discouragement. “It’s not fair” leads to anger and a sense of deprivation. “I really want to eat this right now” leads to disappointment. Dieters can’t prevent these sabotaging thoughts from entering their minds, but if they’ve been practicing helpful responses, they’ll be able to deal with them and modify their habitual eating behavior. Train your mind with these cards until it becomes a habit and you begin to form a “mind, body connection”.
For more ways on how to help change your mindset, contact me today.
- Muscle building takes years of dedicated training. If you can manage to build 2 pounds a month of pure muscle, and – even then – that requires dedicated, consistent training and perfect nutrition… all things exceedingly difficult to achieve in the lifestyle of the average woman.
- Here’s a little secret about the weightlifting industry that no one tells you: a vast percentage of the people you see “hulked out” Are on something. There are entire message boards dedicated to teaching newcomers how to safely use steroids to achieve the look they’re after. This is mainly why there are bodybuilding competitions that drug-test prior to entry (and, for that matter, there are competitions that do not drug test.) The average natural bodybuilder takes years to build all the muscle necessary to get to that level. Well, steroids help cut that time down considerably. Think of the number of athletes we’ve heard of over the years being busted for using steroids to boost their performance. The performance boost comes from skipping years of training merely to cut right to having the power and strength that comes with added muscle.
- Anatomically and endochrinologically speaking, females literally don’t make enough testosterone on their own to facilitate the amount of muscle growth necessary for a woman to “bulk up.” Naturally, biologically-born females make less than tenth the level of testosterone found in a biologically-born male with comparable height, weight, and body fat statistics. This isn’t enough to get you even remotely close to where males can naturally build.
Testosterone is a key part of muscle development, but also just a key part of human function, as well. Your sex drive, your potential for developing acne, the regularity of your menstrual cycle, and even your ability to conceive and nurse are all affected by the amount of testosterone in your body. When it comes to the actual process of muscle development, testosterone aids with the repair and restructuring of muscle fibers that are affected in training through an enhanced ability to process protein. The less of this you have, the more difficult it is for you to build. Hence, no, female-type people, you won’t be able to do it.
- You actually can control how much muscle you build on your body. There’s a massive difference between lifting to gain, and lifting to maintain. You change the number of reps, you change the number of sets, you change the frequency of the training, you change the amount of weight you use, and you change the amount of different exercises you do. Everything from how fast you do your reps to how often you do them contributes to muscle growth, and are all infinitely adjustable to your desires (or with the consult and support of a specialist.) Once you’ve achieved your muscle training goal, you start to reduce the amount of training you do in one way or another, and slowly shift your training into maintenance mode and growth slows down enough to merely serve as maintenance instead of development.
The term “superfoods” is one that is often overused and misunderstood. Although there is no scientific definition to qualify a superfood, in the nutrition world, it signifies a single food that’s jam-packed with good-for-you nutrients that help keep your body healthy. There are many, many foods that are super, but as the saying goes, “don’t put all your eggs in one basket.”
The Dietary Guidelines for Americans stresses variety. Since no single food can provide every single nutrient your body needs in the exact amount needed, your best bet is to eat a whole bunch of healthy fare, all of which balance each other out. That’s also why you may have heard the phrase “eat the rainbow”—the more colors are on your plate, the wider variety of nutrients you’re eating.
Some foods, however, although touted as superfoods, are overhyped (and overpriced!). There are other foods (or combinations of foods) that can provide you with similar nutrients that are just as healthy. Find out which not-so-superfoods you can cross off your grocery list—and what to add instead.
- Goji Berries – These small berries have been marketed to treat inflammation, fight cancer, and improve vision and fertility. Studies done on rabbits and rats have shown some promise in heart health and insulin resistance, but that’s a long way off from having the same effect on humans—or touting the food as a superfood. The actual berry is not rich in one particular vitamin or mineral, though it does contain natural plant chemicals beta-carotene and zeaxanthin, both antioxidants in the carotenoid family.
- Wheatgrass – Many people take a shot of this sprouted grain daily, or purchase high priced-juices or smoothies containing it. Wheatgrass contains a plant compound called apigenin, thought to work similar to an antioxidant in preventing damage to the body’s cells. Wheatgrass does contain a variety of nutrients, including vitamins A, C, E, calcium, iron, and magnesium. It’s also brimming with 70 percent chlorophyll, which is significantly higher than many other green leafy vegetables. However, despite some claims, studies have not found any nutritional value to consuming chlorophyll, and there are no human studies showing that it has any health benefits.
- Acai Berries – Acai has been touted to have all sorts of benefits, including curing allergies, boosting energy, improving sleep, and aiding weight loss. Once again, though, there are no human studies to prove these claims. There was one study conducted at the University of Florida where the antioxidant compounds in acai were shown to help fight leukemia cells—but it was done in a test tube, not on humans.Acai does have an interesting nutrition profile with 50 percent of its calories coming from omega-9 fats, which have been shown to have anti-inflammatory properties. These berries also have fiber, vitamin A, iron, and calcium, and several plant chemicals including anthocyanins, which are potent antioxidants. However, a study published in theJournal of Agriculture and Food Chemistry found that acai juice contained fewer anthocyanins than red wine and pomegranate juice.There’s a huge variety of foods that contain anthocyanins, including blackberries, blueberries, cherries, red grapes, cranberries, and red currants, that are more worth your time.
- Kombucha – This black tea is fermented with the help of yeast, bacteria, and sugar. And it’s health claims include detoxification, increasing energy, improving digestion, enhancing the immune system, and PMS relief. But there are no human studies to support any of these claims. Further, the vinegary flavored tea (which you either love or hate) tends to have a good amount of added sugar. There have also been contamination issues with fungus and bacteria, which is potentially dangerous for those with weakened immune systems, like the very old, very young, pregnant, and nursing mothers. There are all types of teas you can enjoy that have been shown to have health claims (yes, they’re back up with science!). Tea contains phytochemicals called flavonoids, shown to help reduce the risk of heart disease. To get more good-for-you bacteria, enjoy kefir, kimchi, or sauerkraut.
- Chia Seeds – This edible, nutty-flavored seed comes from a desert plant grown in Mexico. The theory behind its weight loss claim is that it provides a satiety value, making you feel full and hopefully causing you to eat less. However, one short 2009 study published inNutrition Research found no such luck when participants ate chia over a 12-week period—in fact, there were no changes in appetite or weight loss.So what about the omega-3s? If you think you’re getting a ton of this essential fat, think again. Chia contains the ALA type of omega-3 fat, which needs to be converted to more potent forms called DHA and EPA in order to benefit heart health. Although reports claim that milled chia can convert from ALA to DHA and EPA more efficiently, more research needs to be done.You’re better off choosing nuts like almonds, peanuts, cashews, and pistachios, which are filled with protein and healthy fat and can help curb hunger. For an omega-3 fix, choose fatty fish like tuna, salmon, and sardines, which contain high amounts of DHA and EPA—the more potent form of omega-3 fats.
These foods will help you stay on track and allow you to opt for a quick healthy snack or meal instead of unhealthy choices. Always include these items in your grocery items list.
- raw veggies cut up and separated in containers or zip lock bags (cucumber, cauliflower, celery, broccoli, cherry tomatoes)
- 100% natural peanut butter or almond butter
- frozen berries
- frozen veggies for quick stir-frys
- frozen shrimp
- frozen chicken (cut chicken breasts in strips before freezing and thaw out in fridge the night before)
- fresh berries
- lettuce (romaine and arugula)
- protein powder (can be purchased at Flexette Health and Fitness)
- sea vegetable (can be purchased at Flexette Health and Fitness)
- dark rye bread
- spelt pasta
- oatmeal (plain unsweetened)
- plain greek yogurt
- turkey bacon
- cold pressed olive oil
- apple cider vinegar
Flexette Health & Fitness seeks to ensure you are always feeling your best, so we are excited to announce the launch of our new on-site physiotherapy clinic!
A physiotherapy session is a great way to ensure any subtle aches and pains aren’t linked to anything deeper within the body. Physiotherapy can also be utilized for increased mobility and stability, especially in the joints.
It is our goal to facilitate an environment where you always feel your best!
This would be a great way to create added convenience if a treatment plan is recommended by the physiotherapist, as all assessments and treatment plans will be carried out here in our facility.
Our physiotherapist will be on site offering FREE physiotherapy
Sign up for your FREE 30 minute physiotherapy session at the front desk, or call us at 416.993.3156 to book your session now.
We hope you resonate with our initiative to further enhance our proactive approach to your health, versus a reactive approach; your body is meant to feel amazing all the time!
Let us know if you’re interested in your FREE assessment!
We are accepting bookings now.
Yours in longevity,
Flexette Health & Fitness